Advice for Men

Getting a group of men together is usually the easy part. Getting them to actually talk is another story. Ask a room full of men, “How’s everyone doing?” and you will probably hear some version of good, busy, can’t complain, or same shit, different day. Then someone changes the subject to work, sports, politics, or […]

Let’s stop pretending there isn’t a problem. Men are lonely as hell, and most guys know it even if they don’t say it out loud. We have more technology, more apps, more ways to talk, and more ways to scroll than any generation before us. Yet millions of men do not have a handful of

Where are we as men? What are we thinking? I think a lot of us put up bars and jail ourselves from feeling most of anything. We close ourselves off from experiences and people who could have enriched our lives, and then we call that strength. We tell ourselves we are being disciplined, focused, or

There is a kind of man who says he is done with society. He is done with women, done with dating, done with work culture, done with being expected to perform, provide, compete, tolerate, and keep showing up for a world that he believes has given him nothing in return. He may call it peace.

A lot of men do not realize how lonely they have become until a moment hits them out of nowhere. Maybe it happens after a phone call with an old friend you have not spoken to in years. Maybe it happens when you realize there is no one outside of your partner or family you

A lot of men do not struggle because they have nothing to say. They struggle because they do not know how to start. Sometimes you are stressed but cannot explain why. Sometimes you are angry, off, distant, drained, or overwhelmed, and all you know is that something feels heavy. You may not want advice right

There is something deeply noticeable about the way women respond to little boys. They soften around them. They describe them as sweet, expressive, emotionally open, affectionate, sensitive. There is admiration in that response. Sometimes even fascination. But very few people ask the harder question. What happens to those boys? Because the emotionally expressive little boy

If you’re asking this question, you’re not lazy. You’re restless. There’s something in you that refuses to live small. You look at the world and think: Things are broken. Men are drifting. Standards are slipping. And I don’t want to just sit here. That instinct matters. But before you try to change the world, you

Let’s just be honest about something most guys won’t say out loud. A lot of men are afraid of women. Not physically afraid. Not hiding in the closet afraid. I’m talking about that subtle, nervous, approval-chasing fear that shows up in how they act. You see it everywhere once you know what to look for.

So you found a men’s group. Or maybe you’re thinking about starting one. Either way, there’s a moment that trips up almost every group of men. The room goes quiet. Everyone’s there for something real, but nobody wants to be the first guy to crack it open. No one wants to sound dramatic. No one