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Where Men Become Confident, Connected, Seen

These are the tools, support, and community every man deserves, but most never get. You’ll get them here:

Guided coaching to help you break out of isolation
A brotherhood community where men show up for each other
Tools for building relationships that actually last
Real conversations that help you grow, not judge you
Support + accountability so you don’t fall back into old patterns

You might be:

Tired of pretending everything is fine
Struggling to connect with others
Unsure how to build deeper relationships
Feeling invisible, overlooked, or misunderstood
Carrying everything alone — with no one to talk to
Wanting change, but not sure where to begin

When you sign up you’ll:

Feel connected instead of alone
Build real relationships
Develop confidence that attracts healthy love
Stop bottling everything up
Gain a trusted community of men who get it
Become the man you’ve been trying to be on your own

Not just coaching. Not just community. Both.

Coaching

Personal guidance, clarity, structured growth, and accountability

Brotherhood

Men supporting men through real conversation, connection, and shared growth

Growth accelerates when guidance and brotherhood work together

The Brotherhood

Community support and connection

Price:

$19 per month

Description:

This is the place for men who want connection, conversation, and a space where they can be honest. If you want brotherhood and support, this is where you begin.

What You Get:

Community membership
Weekly discussion prompts
Monthly group call or online meetups
A space to talk without judgment
Support from men on the same journey
Access to growth resources

Connection Plan

Steady support to help you build real momentum

Price:

$200 per month

Description:

The right choice for men who want guidance, clarity, and consistent progress without a weekly commitment.

What You Get:

2 private coaching sessions per month
Access to The Brotherhood community
Check-ins for questions or support
Clarity on what is holding you back
Practical steps that help you grow

Transformation Plan

Weekly support to help you build lasting change

Price:

$400 per month

Description:

The best choice for men who want consistent growth and noticeable change.

What You Get:

4 private coaching sessions per month
Priority access for questions
Personalized action plans
Brotherhood community access
Structure that supports long-term transformation

What We Stand For

Authentic Connection

No filters, no pretenses. A space where men can speak openly and honestly about their struggles.

Guidance without Judgement

Mental health, relationships, career, and personal growth. Real stories, expert advice, and community-driven support.

Strength in Brotherhood

Men thrive when they lift each other up. This is more than a platform. It is a movement.

Real Stories From Men Who Chose Connection

“Working with Andre helped me break the cycle of isolation I had been stuck in for years. He did not push advice on me. He helped me slow down and understand what I truly wanted. That shift alone changed the direction of my life.”

“The Solemn Sir helped me feel connected again. I did not expect to find a group of men who actually understand what I go through, but I did.”

“When I started coaching with Andre, I felt lost and unsure of myself. I had no idea how to build real relationships. Andre helped me see what was holding me back and guided me in a way that felt supportive and honest. I started showing up differently, and people noticed. I am dating again and I feel more confident than I have in years.”

“The Solemn Sir is the first place where I felt safe enough to talk about what I was really feeling. The men here show up for each other. It feels good to have that kind of support.”

“Andre asked the kind of questions that made me think in ways I never had before. I became more honest with myself and with the people in my life. My relationships feel healthier now because of the work we did together.”

“I did not realize how heavy life had become until I joined The Solemn Sir. I spent years keeping everything to myself. The community gave me a place to talk, to connect, and to feel understood without judgment. It reminded me that I am not as alone as I thought, and that has made a real difference in how I move through my days.”

“I came to The Solemn Sir looking for direction. Andre helped me rediscover my strength and take real steps toward the life I want. I feel more grounded and more hopeful than I did before.”

What Men are Reading Now

Stay connected with the conversations shaping our community. Here you will find the most read articles on The Solemn Sir, from raw reflections on men’s mental health to thought provoking takes on fatherhood, relationships, and the challenges of modern life.

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How to Start a Men’s Group Conversation (Without Making It Awkward)

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So you found a men’s group. Or maybe you’re thinking about starting one. Either way, there’s a moment that trips up almost every group of men. The room goes quiet. Everyone’s there for something real, but nobody wants to be the first guy to crack it open. No one wants

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Domestic violence against men: what to do if you are a victim or know a man who is being abused

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Domestic violence can happen to anyone, including men. It is not “less serious” when the victim is male, and it does not make you weak, stupid, or “less of a man.” Abuse is about power and control, not strength. If you are living through it, or watching it happen to

Men’s Life Coach: Building Connection and Meaningful Relationships in a Disconnected World

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More men are searching for a men’s life coach than ever before. Not because they want motivation slogans or someone telling them how to live, but because many feel disconnected, misaligned, or unsure how to build relationships that actually matter. Modern life rewards productivity, independence, and self-reliance. But it rarely

Where Men's Truths Take the Mic

Watch our latest videos and explore the unfiltered realities of modern manhood through real struggles, honest reflections, and moments of personal growth.

Everyone says “we’re a team” until responsibility shows up.

In this video, I break down what I call corporate hot potato.
How accountability gets passed around, why people hide behind titles, and what it actually means to operate like a real team.

I also explain a practical way to stop the cycle, protect yourself, and expose broken structures without playing office politics.

If you’ve ever felt stuck doing someone else’s job while they collect the title and paycheck, this will hit home.

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Everyone Wants the Job Title. No One Wants the Accountability.

As men, the easiest thing to lose isn’t money.
It’s friends. Community. Real connection.

Life gets heavier. Responsibilities stack up. And connection slowly disappears.

That’s why I built The Solemn Sir — an online community focused on men’s wellness, real conversation, and practical resources to help men reconnect without pretending everything’s fine.

If you’re looking for a place that values growth, honesty, and connection — this is it.

Explore the community: https://solemnsir.com

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I Built a Community Because Men Are Losing This

Men’s groups can be awkward if no one knows what to talk about.

In this video, I share 10 men’s group topics that help break the ice, move past surface-level conversation, and lead to honest, meaningful discussions.

These men’s group topics are designed to:
• Spark real conversation (not yes/no answers)
• Help men talk about pressure, purpose, health, and relationships
• Create connection without forcing vulnerability

If you’ve ever joined a men’s group and wondered “What are we supposed to talk about?” these men’s group topics will help.

Use one topic per meeting.
Let the silence work.
Let the group do what it’s meant to do.

10 Men’s Group Topics for Real Connection

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Guidance for the modern man.

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This Is the Moment You Stop Doing Life Alone

Growth does not happen in isolation. It happens when men come together with honesty and purpose. If you are ready to build the life and relationships you want, this is where it begins.